Do you have ambivalent attachment?
The study showed that children who had ambivalent attachment reacted in an ambivalent way towards the mother. They showed distress when she left, then related to the stranger, and then they showed anger and coldness towards the mother when she returned. Mothers of children with ambivalent attachment behave in a inconsistent way, They are sometimes warm and caring and sometimes indifferent.
Cognitive Behavior Psychologist Monica Emanell