The narcissist ends up lonely emotionally I want to say again what I said in my last article and that is that my definite belief after having heard many, many life stories in my work is that narcissists get back… Läs mer »The narcissist ends up lonely emotionally
The narcissist´s fear comes true in the end The narcissist hates being next best or in the middle, that is the same as being a nobody which is one of the core beliefs the narcissist has about himself/herself. Therefore the… Läs mer »The narcissist´s fear comes true in the end
The different modes of a narcissist – the selg-aggrandizer mode The self-aggrandizer mode is the mode which is most noticable for the environment and also most irritable. The underlying schema here is the entitlement schema. Here the narcissist feels… Läs mer »The different modes of the narcissist – the self-aggrandizer mode
The narcissist acts with entitlement to compensate for feelings of worthlessness The lonely child mode is a result not being validated and not feeling special as a child. The narcissist can flip into this mode when the business collapses,… Läs mer »The narcissist acts with entitlement to compensate for feelings of worthlessness
The different modes of the narcissist The narcissist switches between different states or modes depending on the situation he/she is in. Jeffrey Young explains this in a great way in hi book ”Reinventing your life”. The modes consist of: 1.… Läs mer »The different modes of the narcissist- the lonely child
More facts about narcissism As I said before most people don´t meet the critera for narcissism, instead they have traits of narcissism which is hard enough if you live with one or if you have a parent who is… Läs mer »More facts about narcissism
Facts about narcissism I want to write several articles about narcissism since many of my patients have partners where they recognize narcissistic traits. Narcissistic people themselves seldom seek therapy since they have the opinion that everything is other peoples´ fault… Läs mer »Facts about narcissism
Har du undvikande anknytning? Ainsworth fann i sitt experiment att vissa barn hade undvikande anknytning. De reagerade på ett likgiltigt sätt när mamman lämnade rummet och när hon återvände. De verkade vara ointresserade men studier har visat att de här… Läs mer »Har du undvikande anknytning?
Har du trygg anknytning? Ainsworths experiment visade att om ett barn har trygg anknytning, visar det oro när mamman lämnar rummet varpå det lugnar sig när mamman kommer tillbaka. Barnet välkomnar mammans försök att rösta och fortsätter efter ett tag… Läs mer »Har du trygg anknytning?
Vilken typ av anknytning hade du med dina föräldrar? Anknytningsteorin, utvecklad av Bowlby är utgångspunkten som många forskare har använt sig av för att se hur anknytning till mamman (som oftast är den som är närmast barnet när det är… Läs mer »Vilken typ av anknytning hade du med dina föräldrar?