I will continue writing about how a typically narcissitic mother can behave. In my case example this woman is very narcissistic so if you recognize some features, the person in whom you recognize the features can still have narcissistic features… Läs mer »The narcissistic mother (2)
The narcissistic mother Many ot my patients have one or both parents with more or less narcissistic features. I will write a small story about narcissistic mother so that you can get an idea of how she behaves towards her… Läs mer »The narcissistic mother (1)
I will reapeat the essence of what makes people narcissists. So it´s a combination of genes and a childhood where the child usually is spoilt in some area for example financially. Instead the child never or seldom hears that he/she… Läs mer »The childhood of the narcissist 2
The childhood of the narcissist So what makes people become narcissists? The child who later becomes a narcissist usually gets something superficial reinforced instead of getting his/her emotional needs fulfilled. So instead of hearing that you are good and loved… Läs mer »The childhood of the narcissist
The third mode of the narcissist I have mentioned earlier in my articles that the narcissist flips unconsciously between three modes. Two modes that I have written about are the lonely child mode where the narcissist does not like to be since… Läs mer »The third mode of the narcissist- the self-soother mode
Hur otrygg anknytning påverkar dina vuxna relationer Otrygg anknytning leder ofta till olika ångesttillstånd eller depressioner senare i livet. Den påverkar även ofta vilken typ av kärleksrelation du väljer som vuxen. Om du har en undvikande anknytning är det vanligt… Läs mer »Hur otrygg anknytning påverkar dina vuxna relationer
The narcissist ends up lonely emotionally I want to say again what I said in my last article and that is that my definite belief after having heard many, many life stories in my work is that narcissists get back… Läs mer »The narcissist ends up lonely emotionally
The narcissist´s fear comes true in the end The narcissist hates being next best or in the middle, that is the same as being a nobody which is one of the core beliefs the narcissist has about himself/herself. Therefore the… Läs mer »The narcissist´s fear comes true in the end
The different modes of a narcissist – the selg-aggrandizer mode The self-aggrandizer mode is the mode which is most noticable for the environment and also most irritable. The underlying schema here is the entitlement schema. Here the narcissist feels… Läs mer »The different modes of the narcissist – the self-aggrandizer mode
The narcissist acts with entitlement to compensate for feelings of worthlessness The lonely child mode is a result not being validated and not feeling special as a child. The narcissist can flip into this mode when the business collapses,… Läs mer »The narcissist acts with entitlement to compensate for feelings of worthlessness